Taking the mask off!

Why are we, as christians afraid to really admit that we are going through and need some help? We have been judge a lot, and by other christians...sometimes unfairly. For me, in the past, I have keep quiet and because of that, they think that I feel like am better than them. Which is not the case, however, I was interpreted the wrong way! This happens a lot and dissuade a lot of nice and bright people. I consider that everyday we are going to go through something, but while we go through and how do we act or react to others. Did we treat someone else bad or try to hurt their feelings?