My first time doing Christian Dating

by Vanessa
(San Diego)

I have decided to fully devote myself to Christ and only date Christians. This led me to Christian Mingle, a famous Christian online dating site. Within a week of my official subscription I messaged a man across the United States because of something unique in his profile. I never thought it would turn into what it has today, which is a lot but at the same time, not much.

Nearly a month after we began talking, he came and visited me. We hit it off physically (were attracted to each other but no sex). He stayed at my house because I told him it was OK. He slept in my bed the second night, but again NO sex. Looking back one of us should have put our foot down.

Moving forward, the communication is more romantic in nature now, but he still primarily text messages me, very few calls. We literally text from morning to night. He has said that he will be visiting more often (even got a flight rewards credit card), but has yet to mention anything about a commitment or relationship.

My question is, should I date other people? As a Christian and traditional woman, I don't like to do the chasing, so I don't want to bring up "the talk". I have others that are pursing me and I want to know what the right thing to do. Or should I trust in God and continue seeing where this quasi relationship goes with the man who lives far but isn't asking for a commitment?

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