Comments for Marriage

I really feel for you
by: Sarah

One thing I thought of, perhaps the first thing to try, is in your own private prayer time, preach to your husband's spirit the word of God and bless him daily with the qualities you want to see in him and with the fruits of the Spirit. Along with this, ensure that what you are saying to others about him is not critical or in any way negative but aligns with what you are declaring in prayer.

I hope this helps. Try this for 40 days.
You are a wonderful lady and I pray you will experience a wonderful breakthrough. This is a very difficult situation to face. If it were me, after the 40 days, if there is still no change, I would ask the Lord if you could have a temporary separation from your husband to give you and the children a break. A separation might just help him to see what he might lose if he continues to go his own way, refusing to show love to you and your children.

Lots of love,

Sarah

Patience
by: Lynn Smith

Jude,

I also realized that my husband was not who I thought that I married. I am a Baptist and he is a Church of Christ. I did not really understand what he believed until four years into our marriage and he told me that I was not saved and that the only people that were going to heaven was the members of his church. He believes that one is saved through baptism; Baptist believe that Jesus Christ saves you and not baptism. Therefore he believes that i am going to hell and that made me very angry when he told me that. I sought christian counseling for this and also spoke to me regular counseler about it. The advice that was given to me was; God uses us to save others and that even if our spouse is not saved or believes differently; if we have already married them and are married that we are to stay in and put our total trust and faith in the Lord; I prayed and prayed about my situation and found some peace and relief in the Lord. My husband hasn't changed; he still believes that same wat; but the Lord helped me to see the other traits in my husband that caused me to fall in love with him in the first place. He also helped me to find a peace within that assured me that I was his and that I could change another person's heart only he can. Be fervent in prayer and ask your husband to join in the prayer with you, if he will not, ask him if he will just hold your hand while you pray. The Lord will work miracle for you.

I Am Praying For You
by: Jude

Hello,

This is really tough. I don't have an answer right now. My advice for now is for you to keep doing what you're doing - TRUST HIM. I am praying for you that the good Lord who knows about events before they ever happen will bring you up higher and better while He helps you sort out this tough issue.

What I tell you now I am not telling you for sake of it, because I had a very dark family experience that got me very confused too. I chose then not to do anything out of my emotions but to continue to pray and trust God. Today, I am thankful for that. In your case, I know the Lord will come up with a solution beyond our expectations. God bless you dear sister.

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